Saturday, 3 March 2012

You may ask yourself, how did I get here?

I finally took the plunge, I decided to take the next logical step for me in the digital world, and begin a blog.  I am not going to publicise it, I will use it for random musings, a way to order my thoughts, and also as a bit of a discipline to make me write in ways that would be possibly suitable for an audience.

I have kept diaries on and off over the years, intended for my eyes only.  The late-teenage ones I am so pleased to have written and to have kept.  They are cringingly self-indulgent, trite, repetitive and in some ways heart-tugging.  It really was as if I was another person all those years ago.   My relationship struggles with my parents, my school friends, my crushes.  The way I tried to deal with boyfriends, parties, getting drunk. All standard grist to the mill, nothing revolutionary going on with any of it, but it meant a lot to me at the time.  A good reminder for me when I try to make connections with my now teenaged twin boys.  We are never going to think the same way about things.

Moving on several decades, and I was prompted to join Facebook by an email from a friend asking me to be her fb buddy.  This was in 2008.  I was hardly an early-adopter, I had heard of the site, but was unsure about what it could do for me.  I had not bothered with My Space, at one time the only place to be, because I was too busy raising young children to spend any time online apart from researching childraising topics and sending emails.  I felt that it was way out of my league, I had lost touch with new music, and I also thought I was very likely simply 'too old'.

I warmed to Facebook, added friends, tried to be interesting and engaging with my wall posts, and before long I was addicted.  I joined Twitter in May 2009 because I thought I should, but did little with the account at first and certainly did not 'get' it in any great way.  Like many, I have come to prefer Twitter to Facebook, although I think there is a certain elitism to this view.  You have to 'earn' your followers on Twitter by proving yourself out there.  Your followers feel more like a badge of achievement if you like, whereas your Facebook friends tend to be people you know, and people they know.  I can post a lazy or indulgent status update on Facebook, but I think twice before posting anything on Twitter.  I love how big your potential reach can be on Twitter, even without Klout to inform you of your stats, there is a buzz when a post gets several RTs.  Twitter feels more like putting yourself on the line. On Facebook you can just relax.

Joining other networking sites such as FourSquare, GetGlue, Google+ and Instagram have followed.  In the case of some of them I was driven by the desire to be getting in there early, it's true, but I have found them all to have something to offer that is diverting, fun, a source of information and of course all of them waste plenty of time!

Research carried out by Harris Interactive who studied the social networking habits of 2,361 adults showed that 68% of women versus 54% of men regularly used social networking sites.  This would seem to belie the notion that men are more savvy users of technology.  I feel that women have really taken to this form of communication, and use it rather as they would in 'real' life: to chat with their friends, offer support, share information, empathise.  Another study by the Social Tech Review found that on Facebook women have 55% more wall posts than men, although both have the same number of average friends.  Looking at things informally from my own experience, males like to share information and links on subjects of interest: music, film, work, sport etc. rather than commiserating over someone's weight struggle or relationship breakup.  Just like in 'real' life.....

I have seen more of my real-life female friends join Facebook over the past couple of years, but as yet none of them are on Twitter, and I meet with a wall of indifference if I try and explain my enjoyment of the site.  Many still subscribe to the view that it is all about telling the world what you ate for breakfast, or that your head is aching.  Classic Facebook fare that!  So I value my female Twitter followers even more because I know we all share a certain way of thinking.  My follower list is tiny, but I have some class ones there, and that to me is more important.  And it is slowly building as I engage more and understand more what the value of Twitter really is.

Anyway, my logical way forward was to start blogging, and here it is.  I didn't know where to begin, but the best way to learn is just to get on with it. I have yet to customise or link it in any way, but I plan to have fun with it.  It's a new and interesting challenge. So apologies for the lack of bio, cool images and happening links, but they are all to come in the future.


  1. nice to have a new blog to read, adds more 'substance' to your twitter sharp wit! I myself have a blog 'block' at the moment but hope to be back up 'running' soon! Welcome!

  2. Hi Colm and thank you so much for taking the time to read, and even make a comment. I am really appreciative as I wasn't expecting anyone to look (despite advertising the blog on my Twitter, I know I know..!)
    I have enjoyed reading your very experienced and professional blog over the past few months. I am very much a newbie with this one though, and have already failed with the plan I had to blog at least weekly. I have a lot going on in the real world with the boys, a house move and looking for a job. Once that calms down I hope to get some writing discipline in my life!
    I enjoy following you on Twitter, do keep in touch :)